You’ve Never Been In Their Shoes

Lagi ingin share potongan blog post yang gue temuin.

for now, i’ll leave you with one bit of advice: if you know someone who is going through fertility issues, for the love of god, don’t say “you just need to relax.”  it’s like saying “it will happen when you’re not looking” to a single person.   in both cases just say “that must be hard for you, let’s go get an ice cream.”

From things that she loves.

Bukan mau membahas soal fertility issue-nya.  Tapi bagian yang mengandung unsur ‘komen itu gampang’ lho. Sering ngga nyadar ya kalo komentar-komentar kita itu sebenarnya nyinggung sisi personal banget dari orang lain. Tertutup oleh candaan, kedekatan antar satu sama lain, perbedaan sudut pandang atau pola pikir, dsb….. padahal kalo mood lagi down, yang denger tetep jleb jleb jleb juga jadinya.

Apalagi si orang yang dikomentari ini kan sebetulnya (bisa jadi) sedang berharap, dan dia berusaha sebaik mungkin supaya harapannya itu tetap hidup..mungkin ya. Tetep dong, pake hatilah ya.


i : Abis ini, terus apa?

ii : Ya emang terus apa harusnya?



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